My 3rd wedding day or anniversary

Marriage is a bliss they say, and it turned out to be true.
I have to say I am very lucky when it comes to marriage and my life partner.

Today is my third anniversary and I am wondering how quickly time passed. 3years was like yesterday. When a loved or loving one is nearby time flies, and 3yrs is not a very short time.

To describe

My wife, my well wisher, my best half, my friend, pet, love, and my second mother who teaches, cares,loves, scolds me and prays for my well being and always makes sure I am looking good, feeling good, feeling and looking healthy. I forget my friends, earthly pleasures when she is around me. We laugh, we argue, we fight, we play, we sing, we make fun of, we nudge, we jump, we roll, we eat, all together when we are near each other.

We knew each other since 6th june 2002 and today 5th september 2014 totalling 12years and 3 months or 4775 days. Now I still feel its like yesterday we met, I can not believe its been 12yrs since we met. Whoo hoooooooo.

God is very kind to us and has gifted us with ATRI, our son. He is the bestest thing to have happened in our life. We forget our silly fights, arguments when we see him. I am sure I started writing about my married life but will end up wirting more about ATRI.

He is cute, adorable, intelligent, bubbly, and loves people being around. He is such a cutie we call him our hybrid baby. To me he looks half his mom and half me. He is the symbol of our life, he will make us proud.

Coming back again, poof, as my son deviates me from the job in hand.

3 years on and many more years to come I pray to god that we live together like this all through our life and reach heaven together not until my kids settle in their lives.

She asked me nothing expensive, expansive, items or things except my time.  Always and anyways she asks for my time and  be with them. Recently she asked for a gift for the first time and soon I will present the gift to her and it will be a reality.

Target phyton

2ND AUGUST:: Ok. Today I am trusting my sister and starting my course in phyton. I will post as I can about the progress.

10TH AUGUST wow I am so slow from my target. Reached 100 pages today. What I expected was 100 pages per day but it turned out to be 10 in a day. Need to buckle up and use nitro. Seriously.

12Th AUGUST.-- This week I am coming in the morning general shift 9am to 6pm. So I am now in the 120th page and proceeding slowly but steadly, surely. This target might take around 6 months.b I need to be more focussed and target specific.  Hope and faith will lead me. Praying to god for strength and focus.

Karma

We all regret some of our actions or rather inaction deeply. Sometimes you cannot forget it, it just keeps coming to you haunting your thoughts. One such incident happened in my office.

 I had a tough day and had to take a break.  The cafeteria was on the first floor and I took the lift.

I was on my way down and the lift stopped at 2nd floor, and there the lift door opened in a smooth sliding motion and I heard  a male voice from behind "Excuse me" and I turned back as the door was on its smooth motion into its shell to give way to ppl.

I moved away giving him the the smallest available space in the already cramped lift, and he managed to free himself to get out. As he left my eyes followed him getting out, the moment he crossed my vision  there for the slightest second I saw a man.

That man was physically challenged, he was using his aids and trying to move few steps to reach the lift, it still hurts, I saw another man get into the vacancy created by the person getting out. Observing this I did the unthinkable.  I did not move. 

I need to go down just one floor, I could have got out to let him in, the physically challenged person to use the lift.

I do not know who is wrong, the person who got in or me. I regret my in action.  As the lift door came closing in its smoother action I saw him struggle to move back a few steps.

There were atleast 10 of us in the lift, am I the only person regretting his in action. Bad karma. This would go in my mind as long as I can remember. But this blog will go as long as i die and will make sure I do not repeat it.

I will strive to be a good person and be attentive in the future.  My small action could have been a slap on the face for the person who got in and an eye opener for others. I will try not to  repeat this act again.

Gopinath Radhakrishnan